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I remember a conversation I was having with some friends a few years ago. We were talking about how each of us had a problem in which the girls we thought were cool, but unattractive, were always attracted to us. We joked about the fact that “we’re just not pretty enough” and left it at that. Now, years later, it all makes sense. We were cool and nonchalant around them, but we weren’t sexually available. They wanted what they couldn’t have. They were disqualified. I have taken the red pill.
I wish I could read this kind of stuff years ago, it would help me a lot. Is the disqualifier the same thing as the neg?
They are very similar. Negs are usually backhanded compliments, or playful insults.
Let’s a girl says to you “I’m a model.”
A neg response would be sound like: “What? Like a hand model?”
A disqualifier response would sound like: “Oh man, I don’t date models. Too much trouble.”
Great, thanks for the answer!
all thankz a quadriolion to MYSTERY…
If only i knew this when i was in high school 3yrs ago…
one disqualifier i learnt from mystery: you’re too much of a nice girl for me, that guy over there looks perfect for you.
Favourite neg:(works pretty much when she gives you a f**k facial expression) lady please I’m not here to steal your eggs..say that playfully and she will smile right back at you.
Hey Evolve,
I like your post. But i have question:
Whats the difference between Disqualification and Qualification?
The bottom line is, that when you disqualify a woman by saying she’s not your type, she will automatically QUALIFY herself to prove that she IS.
So one leads to another ?
Hey Jean Paul,
A woman won’t begin to qualify herself until she feels that your value is higher than hers. Disqualification is a mechanism you can use to remove yourself from the frameset of being just another guy hitting on her. It sets the impression that you just want friendly conversation and not much more than that. But, depending on how she perceives your value she may chase you and start to qualify herself. If she doesn’t start to qualify herself then it may mean that she feels her value is higher than your own.
In other words, disqualifing her does not guarantee that she will qualify herself to you. But, there are ways to get around that such as using DHVs (raising your value) and negs (lowering her value).
I’ve told guys again and again, you need to be comfortable with saying no to yourself and more importantly to others.
Whenever a gorgeous woman asks you for something that you don’t like and you said no, she won’t dump you, in fact, she will feel great about you.